IAC Communication Techniques & Active Listening 2 — Questions and Answers
Question 1: A client says, 'I feel like no one at work respects me.' Which active listening response best demonstrates empathy without projection?
- 'That sounds really painful — can you tell me more about what's been happening?' (Correct answer)
- 'You should talk to HR about that immediately.'
- 'I'm sure they respect you, you just can't see it.'
- 'Everyone feels that way sometimes, it will pass.'
Correct answer: 'That sounds really painful — can you tell me more about what's been happening?'
Acknowledging the feeling and inviting elaboration reflects empathy while staying in the client's frame without projecting assumptions.
Question 2: What does 'calibrated questioning' mean in IAC coaching communication?
- Asking questions carefully tuned to the client's readiness and emotional state (Correct answer)
- Using a fixed script of questions for every client session
- Asking only closed-ended questions to gather data efficiently
- Avoiding questions that might make the client uncomfortable
Correct answer: Asking questions carefully tuned to the client's readiness and emotional state
Calibrated questioning means the coach adjusts the type, timing, and depth of questions to match the client's current state and capacity.
Question 3: Which behavior is most characteristic of Level 3 listening in the IAC model?
- The coach notices environmental and energetic cues beyond the client's words (Correct answer)
- The coach focuses on what the client is literally saying
- The coach thinks about how the client's story relates to their own experience
- The coach prepares the next question while the client speaks
Correct answer: The coach notices environmental and energetic cues beyond the client's words
Level 3 (global) listening involves awareness of energy, tone, what is unsaid, and the broader field surrounding the conversation.
Question 4: A coach frequently interrupts clients to offer solutions. Which communication principle is being violated?
- Holding space for the client's process (Correct answer)
- Using directive language appropriately
- Contracting for the session agenda
- Providing actionable feedback
Correct answer: Holding space for the client's process
Interrupting to offer solutions breaks the coach's role of holding space, preventing the client from fully exploring their own thinking.
Question 5: When a client's body language contradicts their words, what is the IAC-aligned response?
- Gently name the observation and invite the client to reflect on it (Correct answer)
- Ignore the body language and take the client's words at face value
- Tell the client their nonverbal signals reveal the truth
- Change the subject to reduce the client's discomfort
Correct answer: Gently name the observation and invite the client to reflect on it
Naming the observed discrepancy in a non-judgmental way invites the client to explore what may be beneath the surface.
Question 6: What is the primary purpose of paraphrasing in an IAC coaching conversation?
- To confirm understanding and show the client they have been heard (Correct answer)
- To demonstrate the coach's intelligence and vocabulary
- To redirect the conversation toward the coach's agenda
- To summarize the session so the client can take notes
Correct answer: To confirm understanding and show the client they have been heard
Paraphrasing serves to verify the coach's comprehension and communicates to the client that their message was received accurately.
Question 7: Which of the following is an example of an open-ended question in a coaching context?
- 'What possibilities do you see from where you are now?' (Correct answer)
- 'Did you complete the action you committed to?'
- 'Is your main challenge time or money?'
- 'Have you spoken to your manager yet?'
Correct answer: 'What possibilities do you see from where you are now?'
Open-ended questions invite broad exploration and cannot be answered with a simple yes, no, or forced choice.
A client says, 'I feel like no one at work respects me.' Which active listening response best demonstrates empathy without projection?