ABST Refusal of Service Techniques 1 — Questions and Answers
Question 1: When refusing service to an intoxicated customer, what is the MOST important first step a server should take?
- Call the police immediately
- Remain calm and speak in a non-confrontational tone (Correct answer)
- Ask other customers to help remove the person
- Ignore the customer and serve someone else
Correct answer: Remain calm and speak in a non-confrontational tone
Remaining calm and non-confrontational reduces escalation and helps resolve the situation safely without creating additional conflict.
Question 2: Which phrase is MOST appropriate when refusing service to an intoxicated patron?
- 'You've had too much to drink and you need to leave.'
- 'I'm sorry, but I'm not able to serve you any more alcohol tonight.' (Correct answer)
- 'Get out before I call the police.'
- 'I think you're drunk and causing problems.'
Correct answer: 'I'm sorry, but I'm not able to serve you any more alcohol tonight.'
Using 'I' statements and apologetic language is less confrontational and helps maintain the customer's dignity while clearly communicating the refusal.
Question 3: After refusing service to a customer, what should a server do next to handle the situation professionally?
- Continue to avoid the customer for the rest of the shift
- Offer a non-alcoholic alternative or food (Correct answer)
- Demand the customer pay their tab immediately
- Tell other staff members loudly about the refusal
Correct answer: Offer a non-alcoholic alternative or food
Offering non-alcoholic alternatives or food shows genuine concern for the customer's wellbeing while maintaining a professional and caring approach.
Question 4: Which of the following is an example of a proactive 'soft refusal' technique?
- Physically blocking the customer from the bar area
- Switching the customer to water without any explanation
- Announcing loudly to management about the intoxicated customer
- Offering to bring food first and slow down drink service (Correct answer)
Correct answer: Offering to bring food first and slow down drink service
Offering food or deliberately slowing drink service is a proactive soft refusal that addresses overconsumption before an outright refusal becomes necessary.
Question 5: When a customer becomes argumentative after being refused service, the server should:
- Match the customer's energy to establish authority
- Calmly repeat the refusal without providing lengthy explanations (Correct answer)
- Offer the customer one more drink to calm them down
- Walk away from the situation entirely without a word
Correct answer: Calmly repeat the refusal without providing lengthy explanations
Calmly repeating the refusal without lengthy explanations avoids giving the customer ammunition for argument and demonstrates firm, consistent policy.
Question 6: Who should a server notify IMMEDIATELY after refusing service to an intoxicated customer?
- Only the customer's friends or companions at the table
- No one — the matter is strictly between server and customer
- A manager or supervisor on duty (Correct answer)
- The local police department
Correct answer: A manager or supervisor on duty
Management must always be notified of a refusal so they can provide staff support, document the incident, and assume authority if the situation escalates.
Question 7: What is the PRIMARY purpose of documenting a refusal of service incident in writing?
- To embarrass the customer if they attempt to return
- To create a legal record that protects the establishment from dram shop liability (Correct answer)
- To formally report the customer to law enforcement authorities
- To track which servers refuse service most frequently
Correct answer: To create a legal record that protects the establishment from dram shop liability
Written documentation creates a legal record demonstrating the establishment acted responsibly, which is essential protection against dram shop liability claims.
When refusing service to an intoxicated customer, what is the MOST important first step a server should take?